Dear Timberland

First of all (and most importantly), you recognize that you're vulnerable in your current setting, which is a good thing. Just like anyone who's unhappy, you have to decide what it is that you want to change (in your case, it's your identity, or whatever makes you want to hide it), and then truly let it go. Yes, it's scary. But that's only because you're finally taking your mask off to reveal your genuine personality, and you're uncertain - maybe even dreading -  how people may react to the "new" you. I can tell you this much, though: if you're unhappy with who you are, there's a pretty good chance other people see that and aren't totally thrilled by you, either. So, if you're so eager to please, then at least make sure you're pleasing yourself first. If you're happy with who you are, then everyone else will be. Meanwhile, don't let anyone take you for granted. Especially if they're wearing Timberlands. Those can be dangerous.